Q: How much experience does AisleShare have in the events industry?
A: AisleShare has 20+ years of experience planning weddings of all sizes and styles, from intimate gatherings to large-scale celebrations and conferences.
Q: Does AisleShare offer customizable options?
A: AisleShare will consider a private and customizable wedding or vow renewal package to fit your specific needs and budget. Contact us at ido@aisleshare.com to discuss your requirements and we'll provide a tailored proposal.
Q: What type of wedding ceremony or vow renewal options are available?
A: There are pre-set dates throughout the year that allow for multi couples to participate in a formal, 5 hour wedding/vow renewal ceremony followed by a formal reception at a local venue. At these events, couples will provide a personal guest list; spectators are not allowed at this type of event.
There are also public "pop-up" events that AisleShare promotes throughout the year (ie: Valentines Day, County Fairs, PRIDE celebrations, etc.) that allow for spectators. Public "pop-up" events require that all couples, guests, spectators purchase tickets to the event.
Q: Who does AisleShare appeal to?
A: AisleShare is perfect for couples who are looking to make their wedding or vow renewal ceremony a shared, memorable experience. Whether you’re celebrating your love for the first time or reaffirming your commitment, AisleShare welcomes couples who:
If these aspects resonate with you, AisleShare might just be the perfect fit to bring your union to reality!
Q: Who may not like the AisleShare concept?
A: While AisleShare offers a unique, inclusive, and interactive wedding and vow renewal experience, it may not be the perfect fit for everyone. Here are some who might not find AisleShare suitable:
If these characteristics describe your preferences or needs, you may want to consider a more traditional or personalized wedding format tailored specifically to your expectations.
Q: Personalization: How can I make my ceremony feel special and personal in a multi-couple format?
A: You can personalize some aspects such as having someone you love walk you down the aisle, invite those on the invite list (perhaps parents, maid of honor, best man) to provide a speech at the reception.
Q: What is the primary language used at the ceremony & reception?
A: English is the primary language. Should there be a request for a specific language, please discuss with AisleShare prior to committing.
Q: Timing and Ceremony Structure: How long will the ceremony last, and will all couples get equal time during the event?
A: The ceremony typically lasts 20 - 30 minutes. The ceremony script is written in such a way that all couples exchange vows at the same time.
Q: Guest Experience: How will guests feel engaged during a multi-couple ceremony? Will there be an opportunity for them to participate or witness personal moments?
A: Guests are encouraged to participate in key moments such as group toasts or group affirmations. We ensure that they are seated comfortably and engaged throughout the event, celebrating not just you, but all love stories present.
Q: Legalities: How are marriage licenses and legal aspects handled in a multi-couple setting? Are all couples assured of proper legal documentation?
A: The Officiant and witnesses provided by AisleShare submit the legal paperwork, ensuring that your marriage or vow renewal is fully recognized. It is the responsibility of the couple to obtain their wedding license not more than 90 days before the wedding date and bring it the day of the event.
Q: Privacy: Will there be an exchange of rings and first kiss?
A: Yes, absolutely!
Q: Photography/Videography: How will photos or videos work in a multi-couple ceremony? Will each couple have their own dedicated time for professional shots?
A: There will be a professional photographer on staff throughout the ceremony and formal reception.
There will be an opportunity for each couple to have portrait shots after the ceremony. And, there will also be an opportunity for a group shot of all brides, grooms and vow renewal participants, with your invited guests and of course lots of candids! Links to all photographs will be shared via a dedicated link for the event date.There will be a videographer capturing the event and footage will also be available to each couple.
Q: Cost: Is the cost lower compared to traditional single-couple weddings, and what is included in the package (e.g., cake, photographer, officiant)?
A: Yes, the cost is lower than a traditional single-couple wedding. Our packages include essentials like a venue, officiant, floral & decor, photography, rentals, seated dinner, champagne toast, dj, a personalized cake, and more providing excellent value for money while maintaining a high-quality experience.
Q: Coordination: How are logistics like seating, decor, and timing coordinated to accommodate multiple couples and their guests?
A: We have a dedicated team ensuring that everything runs smoothly. Seating, decor, and timing are all meticulously planned so that each couple and their guests feel the event is organized, elegant, and memorable.
Q: Venue Space: How is the reception space divided or shared between multiple couples?
A: It is the couples' consensus to either a)sit with their guests at the reception, or b)allow for a long, communal style table with other couples at the head of the reception area.
Q: Atmosphere and Connection: How do you ensure the atmosphere feels inclusive but also intimate for each couple?
A: AisleShare ceremonies are designed to feel inclusive and celebratory, while maintaining a romantic and intimate atmosphere. The ceremony includes group elements that connect all couples, but each couple also has an opportunity to exchange rings, kiss, first and last dance, and provide heartfelt speeches.
Q: Custom Elements: Can we add personal elements (vows, music choices, symbolic rituals) to distinguish our ceremony?
A: Symbolic rituals may be brought to the attention and reviewed by AisleShare to decide if it aligns with the main ceremony & timeline or would be more meaningful afterward. This approach allows us to honor each couple's unique vision while maintaining a seamless and engaging experience for everyone involved.
Song requests for the reception should be provided in advance.
Q: Guest Limits: Is there a cap on the number of guests each couple can invite?
A: We do set a cap on guests to ensure everyone is accommodated comfortably. Each couple is allotted a specific number of guests, but we offer additional options if you'd like to include more loved ones space permitting and ensuring that other couples have the same opportunity.
Q: Are couples/guests allowed to bring gifts to the venue?
A: It is advised not to bring gifts to the venue.
Q: Food and Beverage: How will catering work in a shared setting, and will each couple have the opportunity for their own menu or shared options?
A: We provide a shared reception or post-ceremony celebration with delicious catering options that all couples and guests can enjoy together. If you prefer something more personal, you can create signature cocktails available at the cash bar (may not be an option for "pop-up" events). We try to accommodate special meal requirements such as vegetarian, vegan, gluten and lactose free but must be identified in advance with ample notice.
Q: Emotional Impact: Will sharing the moment with other couples lessen the emotional impact or significance of the ceremony?
A: Sharing the moment with other couples often amplifies the emotion! There's a collective celebration of love, which makes the experience more profound, yet still allows for deeply personal moments with your partner.
Q: Post-Ceremony Events: Are there any plans for after-parties or receptions that involve all couples, or are they separate for each couple?
A: Aside from the after ceremony no host cocktail hour and formal reception, couples can arrange for their own after-parties at their designated location. Be sure to check-in with the other couples, you may find they would like to continue the celebration with you! After all, you've now shared an unforgettable experience and become part of the AisleShare family creating a unique bond that is a beginning of a new journey.
Q: Can I attend an AisleShare public "pop-up" event as a spectator without being part of a couple?
A: Absolutely! AisleShare public "pop-up" events welcome all attendees, whether you are supporting a couple, curious about the unique experience, or just enjoying a fun day out. The events are designed to be inclusive and engaging for everyone.
Q: What can I expect when attending as a spectator?
A: As a spectator, you can look forward to witnessing multiple couples exchanging vows or renewing their commitments, interactive entertainment, heartfelt moments, and celebrations that create a sense of community. Plus, there will be opportunities to participate in group activities and celebrations, making you feel included and part of the experience.
Q: Do I need a ticket to attend an AisleShare public "pop-up" event as a spectator?
A: Yes, if the event is public "pop-up" (ie: Valentine's Day Wedding or Vow Renewal, PRIDE, etc.) spectators will need to purchase a ticket to attend. This helps ensure the event can accommodate everyone and keeps the experience enjoyable for all guests.
Q: What should I wear to an AisleShare event as a spectator?
A: Attire can vary depending on the theme of the event, so it’s best to check the event details. Typically, you’ll want to dress your best in semi-formal or event-appropriate attire. Some events may have specific themes, so dressing to match can enhance your experience and participation.
Q: Can I bring guests with me to a public event?
A: Yes, The tagline “bring your plus one,” embodies the idea that everyone is welcome to share in the celebration. Public events will require all couples, guests and spectators to purchase a ticket.
Q: Is there food or entertainment for spectators?
A: AisleShare events often include interactive elements, entertainment, and refreshments. You can expect light snacks, beverages, or even special treats like AisleShare’s signature blushing bliss cakes. Additionally, there may be live music, performances, or games to keep the atmosphere lively and engaging.
Q: Can spectators take part in activities at the event?
A: Yes! Spectators can join in on group activities, photo opportunities, and communal moments that make AisleShare events special. While the spotlight is on the couples, there are plenty of ways for attendees to be involved in the experience.
Q: Are there opportunities to meet the couples or interact with others?
A: Absolutely! AisleShare is about creating a community. There will be chances to meet the couples, congratulate them, and mingle with other attendees. The interactive nature of the event encourages socializing and celebrating together.
Q: Are AisleShare events family-friendly?
A: Yes, AisleShare events are designed to be family-friendly and welcoming to guests of all ages. However, some events might have specific guidelines or age-appropriate elements, so it’s a good idea to check the event details beforehand. In some instances when alcohol is present, those under 21 must be accompanied by a parent.
Q: Can I buy gifts or contribute to the couples’ celebrations?
A: It is advised not to bring gifts to the venue, event/celebration.
Attending an AisleShare public "pop-up" event as a spectator can be an unforgettable experience filled with joy, laughter, and love, whether you’re cheering on a loved one or soaking in the atmosphere of shared celebrations.
Q: What happens if an unwanted ex attends an AisleShare public event?
A: AisleShare events are designed to be joyful, inclusive, and respectful spaces. However, if an unwanted ex or someone whose presence could cause discomfort attends, here are some key points to consider:
Q: What should I do if an unwanted ex approaches me at a public AisleShare event?
A: If an unwanted ex approaches you and you feel uncomfortable, consider these steps:
Q: Can I request that an ex not be allowed to attend?
A: If you’re aware of an ex potentially attending an event where you’ll be participating, you can inform event organizers ahead of time. If the ex arrives without the knowledge of the couple and the couple wishes the ex to leave, the couple's wish would prevail and the ex would be asked to depart and their ticket fees if any will be refunded.
AisleShare's main goal is to ensure a positive, inclusive, and joyous atmosphere for all. Addressing issues discreetly helps maintain the harmony and spirit of the celebration.
If you have any questions not listed here, please feel free to reach out to us!
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